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American baby's growth
Author:管理员    Released in:2013-12-05 15:11:34    text:【biggest】【bigger】【big

For a long time, China's children to accept is the infusion education, American children are different.In general, the exam, the Chinese children than children in the United States, but to turn or research often than americans.

How about the situation?The author found that children in the United States looks grew up in carefree.Very little homework when I was a child, is the main play on home, to the university, also don't have to like domestic high school students must be in the way that the university entrance exam easily, American children will want to go to college simply by the point of the school, the teacher's recommendations and social activities, can apply for university.Record is not accepted, all by the university's need for talents.Children don't have to worry about college, because not admitted to the university, the university can be admitted, is all roads lead to Rome.

Although the growth of American children seems to be a natural thing, but the author through the communication with local people in the United States found that American parents on how to make children be independent as early as possible and the potential of intelligence development show originality, under a lot of kung fu.Some people say that Chinese children are large, while American children is getting bigger, that a little too much.

In the United States, no matter where, can see the toddler.If a child fell, parents don't usually ran to actively, bend to stretch out his hand to help children, but call a sound, children see no adult hand, had to stand up, unless you fall off a wall.No matter in the park, or on the streets or the plane of the aisle, you can see children in front, teetering along parents in the run with breathtaking scene

American parents also attaches great importance to communicate with children.The author a flight from New York to Minneapolis napoli, on the way for five hours, sitting in the back of the mother moment didn't stop with your age 2 and 5 years old children to communicate, children have craigslist, mother also like a shoot induction of teachers, make persontoperson contact with children, like the brothers and sisters, very equal, respect each other, have no children over the head.On the way children question is very interesting, such as why the plane fly in the snow?How did the plane fly without moving?The window of the plane why can't open and so on?

One of my American friends told me that the United States pays much attention to communication with the child's parents.When the child was born, parents would try to communicate with babble children, to pass the feelings of parents to children.Open the newspapers in the United States, there is also a encourage parents and children communication, and parents said the United States have reached a consensus that want to developed a smart lovely child, first of all should learn from children born began to communicate with the baby.Parents don't have to worry about the communication become unilaterally will, because the baby was born with the ability to relate to people, and are willing to associate with you.

Baby mother is the first and most time contact communication object, the beginning of eyes watching each other's communication between mother and child.Mother still can use every opportunity to communicate with your baby, such as: feeding, diapers, or holding the baby when I will talk to him, and smiling face, say things like "look at mother" "baby really good intimate words."If listen to the words when the baby to eat milk, speed will slow down or even stop sucking, show that the baby listen to mom.

Means of communication can be diverse, in addition to the baby and "talk", can also and your baby be amusing, such as touch the baby's head, gently scratched baby small belly, to attract the attention of the baby, and made him smile.When the baby smile, to give praise, more and don't forget the gently kiss mom is also good reward for your baby.

Take every opportunity to associate with the baby, let the children in their relations with their parents, to distinguish different voices, context, meet different person's face and expression, maintain a pleasant mood.The author thinks that why American children grow up to go to university after independence is strong, have the ability to analyze and solve problems, plasticity, with the parents of young children's language development is inseparable.

According to American friends, American children live together with parents, when I was younger children sleep one room alone.Of course also can have children afraid of loneliness, this it is better to do, let him from interacting with the dog.No wonder when the dog disappeared or died, many children all cried grief, because the child and the dog's feelings is better than the parents!Children in the age of 18, have to earn money to solve livelihood, this is not the parents have no money, but to make him child earn money independent at an early date.American children from an early age often heard parents mantra: "take good care of yourself", "make your life better tomorrow".American parents is such, let the children themselves to make money, is to let children know that make money of hard and not easy, and the value of money.

After college, the child can apply for a credit card, this is the first step to learn to financial management, pay the bills, if not in time to pay bills, personal credit has besmirch, later will encounter a lot of trouble.Near the university graduation, car dealers would sell car to school.Children start their car rental, rent apartments, odd jobs, but when the child is not fixed yet, someone buy big have to guarantee to you, let you know the money earned is not white.And then, after the graduation can find a permanent job, with the passage of time, income growth, will buy a house, car, and further improve the life, this system can let the child as soon as possible to adapt to social and independent life.

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